Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Modern Mom: Giving Thanks

This year, I don’t care if my Thanksgiving meal is perfect. I’m not worried about whether the house will be immaculate and the table set just so. I have different aspirations for the holiday this time around. I will be thankful if:

  1. There is more laughter than crying or whining
  2. My kids agree to skip pasta for one meal and fill their bellies with any of the seven (non-pasta) dishes I’m preparing
  3. My house is still standing at the end of the night
  4. I am still standing at the end of the night
  5. The 11 kids, who will range in age from 1 to 13, can agree on a post-dinner DVD
  6. The 12 adults, whose ages I will keep to myself, can agree that it’s okay for the kids to watch a DVD after dinner
  7. There’s enough food left over to feed my family the next day so I don’t have to think about cooking (all the more so if there’s enough food to last the weekend but I don’t want to be greedy)
And if none of the above comes to pass, I will be immensely thankful and it will be more than enough if everyone in attendance is healthy and happy.

1 comments:

Tamara said...

I am not so much of a new mother any more in that my kids are 5 and 3 and a half years old. But I somehow still feel new. And even with 2 kids who are both out of diapers, everything on your list is totally valid! Great list!

 
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